Fear Of Losing

Fear can be of any type may it be losing a peron or a possession. We come across these situations during any moment of life. Theoretical explanation or justification might say that it’s process of life but dimensions in practical life vary from person to person but in the end Life never stops it goes on. One might remain in shell of negativity or overcome the situation but in real life one has to bear it and move on.

Everyday around a person their are many incidents such that but time never say one to be happy or unhappy in a given situation.

Bhagvad Gita even says one has to continue doing or has to come in day to day work life. Attachment or denouncement is human or animals inherent emotions one cannot run away and what keeps along with the person is memories or words sometimes it gives laugh and on other time it gives sadness.

To understand dogma of life cycle sometimes give jitters when one gets surrounds with all things happening on negative side but in the end overcoming from that pressure lies in hand of individual itself.

There may be many books or write ups on how to overcome sadness after losing but in the end individual response to the situation only makes to get over it.

There is no set rules on this how to behave or react in situation when something is lost but it’s the days after day one realizes humans or animals does not have answer to it or control on it.

We may defer the happiness by ourselves but cycle of life have all colors .

Life toughest task is to be happy in difficult conditions because process of gaining or losing will go on. What matters the most is WORDS they keep one alive no matter in memories or real situations.

Real essence of life is to grab the moment as it comes , living or going away from it is individual response.

One day each person has to face the challenge of losing someone ,this is uncontrollable so make most of it the way one wants to be rather than living in past guilts or grievances. Because in the end it’s the chances we didn’t take will matter in the life.

It’s not a new topic as it’s discussed or in discussion by many people but only thing which can make one at ease is Gratitude as this will only help ones innerself at peace

India Needs Indians

Just watched 1st Episode TED Talk and again thoughts about doing or giving back something to our own country bubbled again. Being a travelled to so many countries in the world and after comparing my own country we often disregard our country in all respects whether it’s culture, society , development and education but we never realise one thing when we do comparison what’s the standing out difference between developed and developing countries people and that difference is in developed countries people have thought to do or give back to their country or if they can’t do anything atleast they don’t devalue their country infront of other countries. 

It’s not the government in all countries do everything but it’s the people of that country which do but in our case we only realise this when either we get homesick or would earned enough money for living we think of coming back to our country . 

Have we ever asked why people in developing countries specially move towards western world the only answer is to earn money and have living comfort but we never realise why can’t we get that comfort in our country because we don’t want to change our attitude to grow the country in all levels and only reason for this is we are have become selfish and scared of question ” Log Kya Kahenge” . 

We hardly look into this if we all will move towards western world our own country will become as it is and we will keep on cribbing like what we do right now. 

When I see China and India both are developing and the only difference I see people over there is Innovation and Want to improve the country by atleast following the laws. Laws has been enforced in our country as well but as a citizen we feel proud in breaking them and another major reason we only want to educate ourselves to earn more and have comfortable life. We actually don’t know what’s the real pursuit of education. 

We work in restaurants outside India and feel proud doing the same job but when similar job we do here, we think it as sin or only poor people are meant to do such job. In other words we don’t value work. With money chipping in our life Arrogance towards weaker is common thought in almost every single individual.
Like this there could be many such negative things around us and solution is not go and see the world by our money , but make our own country which indeed is rich in resources to be something so that people of other country don’t come to see poor india but real India.
I am not preacher but yes social thinking has evolved inside me that noone else is responsible except us making our country still with feud and Orthodox mentality . We have learnt to buy expensive things to show flamboyance but inside our mind we are still primitive or I can say backward.

Life A Travel

It’s not new that life is certainly a travel and it only ends with the last breath but human only realises life’s importance when he or she loses himself # herself OR loses the one that’s most dearest to him#her. The latter or Former has deep meaning in everyone’s life it’s human’s computerised brain what data to process at what time and how it displays either by dream or recalling the memories. 

Impressions on Brain’s hard-disk are in hands of the person to delete or keep. Life doesn’t stop. The interwoven brain does not delete data it recalls the data by  making a person alive or dead. So what draws the travel of life a person engaged . Yes materialistic gains or materialistic expectations but they get delusion with time because when a person loses self it’s not possible to engage with materialistic things. Other most important factor keeps engaged ebony or hatred for someone which never goes easy  but one day goes away and only gets recalls when a person is in tough state. 

So what a person is living for its very simple but difficult to get is LOVE . From childhood onto the dying bed this is the only thing which keeps one engaged with oneself and others. The pursuit of this travel is by materialistic or emotional or physical way what we want to attain in life is LOVE. 

Love and Life make this travel or journey joyful or mediocre way of living. When during the end person expect to live more there is no materialistic thing which engages it is LOVE which he or she was not able to shower and things which needed to be corrected in the travel of life

Human body is interesting machine which has fluid to flow get to feel and algorithm in mind to combat with any situation. 

Whether LOVE or HATE or DEPRESSION or any thing human brain can process without help of second person is failure. You need other person with whom all these feelings are associated no matter living or dead. 

Last thing is practising COMPASSION which is supreme of anything even above than LOVE and simplest or difficult or different to achieve because for someone who kaisa off every possession it becomes simplest feeling to achieve but for the one whom this Compassion is associated with a minimal expectations which is genuine natural instinct of human it becomes different or difficult.
So what’s the travel of life we have options with us and How we take up choices are in our hands. Yes for sure it’s pure personal reason how one wants this travel of life.

Heaven in Your Arms- Names Coined

IBAADAT with name of the lady itself it gives a feeling she is gone to be beautiful & the moment someone passes by he must hold on to his breath and pray to God to be part of her life. SAKSHAM the man who is full of positivity and capable of completing his every task falls in love with IBAADAT & then whole sagaa of love goes  leaps and bounds reaching to Sky and then suddenly something happens which neither of these two beautiful souls thought off and love takes a new turn. 
Keep reading you shorts and share your ideas what could have happened to both of them. If your idea is included in book . The first copy winner will receive as free of cost.
Hemant Kohli- Writer in Thoughts

https://safarthejourney.org/2017/11/18/heaven-in-your-arms/

ख़यालो से ख़्वाब तक

रख देता हूँ ख़यालो को अब ख़्वाबों में

देखें क्या हाथ में सहर होते होते

कभी ख़्वाब भी मुक़ामिल हुआ करते थे

अब तो ख़यालो से रह गुज़र होती है

वो जो कभी अपने हुआ करते थे

अब ख़यालो में भी भीड़ के तरह होते हैं

हम इशारे से गर बुला भी लें

ख़्वाबों में हाय तौबा होती है

ज़माने की उलझने भी कम होती नहीं

खयाल से भी ख्याल अब करते नही

दुनिया को खुश रखने को

ख़्वाबों में ही दोस्ती करते हैं

ये खयाल भी अपनी मंजिल ढूंढता हैं

कितना मासूम है ख़्वाबों मैं ज़िंदगी 

रातों में बसर कर लिया करता है

वक़्त

कभी उलझता सा

कभी सुलझता सा

कभी बिगड़ता सा

कभी संवरता सा

जाने ये वक़्त क्यूं मुझसे

आंख मिलचोली करता सा

कभी बचपन का

कभी लड़खपन का

जाने क्या क्या रंग दिखता सा

कभी हाथ में मेरे

कभी हाथों से परे

अपनी अहमियत दिखता सा

कभी चलता हवा की गति

कभी धीमी धीमी नदी सा बहता

मैं दौड़ता हूँ पकड़ने को जब भी

मेरे हाथों से ओझल होता

ऐसा ये वक़्त

Heaven in Your Arms

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A romantic love story of a man passionate of his dreams , followed dreams persuasively and while on go with nuances of life as they follow in common man’s life  come across a girl having lots of  confusions about her life with no direction where to head on. Its a heart bouncing story with lots of ups and downs with unusual circumstances causing upsets in their life due to problems in others lives. Deep , Intense ,  Pain but still they find heaven when locked into each others arms. 

He is  debutante  in field of best writers without knowledge of how to begin. Its just an try to follow one of his other dream to be a writer. The words has to begun yet and to be penned down by the writer and sooner or later will hit into the market.